Become a TEXAN!
If you've spent any time watching the FIFA matches being played in Texas this year, you've probably noticed something.
People from all over the world have come to Dallas, Houston, and other Texas cities and left talking about how much they enjoyed their experience.
The hospitality.
The food.
The people.
The energy.
As a Texan, I love hearing that.
One of my favorite moments wasn't even on the field. It was watching fans from Japan continue their tradition of cleaning up the stadium after matches. They weren't trying to change Texas. They weren't criticizing how things were done. They were simply showing appreciation and respect for a place they were visiting.
That simple act got me thinking.
Last week, I attended a home inspection with some buyer clients. The inspector shared that he originally came from Alabama. He told us Texas offered better opportunities, a stronger job market, and great schools, but if he could, he'd move back to Alabama tomorrow because he liked it better there.
He also mentioned that Texans weren't always as friendly as he expected.
As soon as he said that, I found myself thinking back to 1979 when my family moved to Texas.
I'm an Army brat. By the time I graduated from Baylor University, I had attended twelve different schools. Moving was simply part of life. Every new place felt strange at first. Every move came with the same thoughts:
"I liked my old town better."
"My old friends were better."
"Things were done differently there."
But as I settled into Texas, made friends, and became part of the community, I learned something important.
Texas wasn't asking me to forget where I came from.
Texas was asking me to join.
And that's a difference many people miss.
For decades, people have moved to Texas seeking opportunity. In fact, during the late 1970s and early 1980s, Texas experienced explosive growth as families arrived from all over the country looking for jobs and a better future.
Most were grateful to be here.
Some spent their time explaining why everything back home was better.
I've been hearing those conversations ever since.
"The food was better."
"The beaches were better."
"The schools were better."
"The people were better."
After a while, imagine how that sounds.
Think of it this way.
You own a home. You work hard to maintain it. You take pride in it.
One day, a family member asks if they can stay with you because they're having problems at their own house.
Being the welcoming person you are, you say yes.
Then every day they tell you how much better their old house was.
How they would redesign your kitchen.
How they would organize your garage.
How they would run things differently if they were in charge.
How long before your patience starts wearing thin?
That's not because you're unfriendly.
It's because respect matters.
The truth is that Texans generally love newcomers.
We're proud of our state and enjoy showing it off.
We'll tell you where to find the best BBQ.
We'll debate which Tex-Mex restaurant is the best.
We'll argue over whether Houston or Dallas has the better food scene.
We'll recommend a small-town festival, a hidden lake, a Friday night football game, or a weekend trip to the Hill Country.
We genuinely want people to enjoy Texas.
But if you're moving here, don't just come for the paycheck.
Learn our history.
Explore our small towns.
Visit the Gulf Coast.
Drive through the Hill Country.
Experience East Texas, West Texas, Dallas-Fort Worth, Houston, San Antonio, Austin, and the communities in between.
Try the Tex-Mex.
Eat the BBQ.
Learn why so many Texans proudly fly the Texas flag right alongside the American flag.
You don't have to believe Texas is perfect.
Trust me, Texans debate plenty among ourselves.
But if you choose Texas, embrace Texas.
Become part of the community.
Contribute to what makes this place special.
Because Texas isn't just where many of us live.
It's home.
And yes, we know there are burgers everywhere.
But Whataburger is our burger.
And we're pretty proud of that.
So if you're thinking about visiting Texas, come on down. We'd love to have you.
And if you're thinking about moving to Texas, we'd love to welcome you too.
Just come ready to become part of Texas.
Because around here, hospitality works best when appreciation goes both ways.
And that's something Texans will always respect.
If you think you are ready to become a TEXAN and would like to talk about Texas, call me.
